Social Services vs. actual support

I’ve been a little quiet lately, thought I should explain what has been going on. Especially as I am very angry and need to get this off my chest. We have been referred to Social Services, this …

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Neglectful mother

I’m sorry, for those of you following me for plus size fashion and art, this is a departure. Some of you have followed me a while though and will know a little about my daughter, born 10 weeks p…

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Come Away With The Faeries

This Saturday just gone I ventured into a wonderland of natural beauty filled with fantasy creatures and colour. Well, maybe not the fantasy creatures.. more people wearing fairy wings and glitter. Bu…

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The Garden Tour

A year ago we moved into our current home. I don’t think I could adequately explain to you how life changing this has been. We’ve lived in a string of awful properties and this is the firs…

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My c-section story

Just read this beautiful article on caesarean births., and wanted to share my own story.

Have had a less than positive experience recently with a local hospital, which is a shame because on the whole we’ve always had a lot of help at this particular hospital. And we’ve been th…

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My gentle boy and my strong girl

You are both so little still, both still under 3, and already I can see that society is valuing some of your traits over others. This breaks my heart, because you are both so much more than stereotype…

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One year on

Today is the 24th of January, a spectacularly uninteresting day to many I imagine. For me it was the start of a traumatic experience, an experience that is still ongoing, but there is finally a light…

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